The Best Ways to Create A Team You Can Trust
I've struggled with trusting my team members, often feeling overwhelmed by the fear of relinquishing control. I embarked on a journey to trust, by acknowledging my struggle with trusting others, and recognizing the role that authenticity played in building trust and empowerment.
It started with recognizing the importance of trust, experiencing the consequences of my mistrust, and taking the transformative steps to build trust and empower my team members.
The Struggle to Trust:
Admitting my struggle to trust my team members was not easy. The fear of mistakes, a desire for perfection, and a belief that only I could ensure success fuelled my reluctance to delegate tasks. The more I clung to control, the more I isolated myself from the collective wisdom and talents of my team.
The Cost of Mistrust:
My lack of trust had profound consequences. It made me doubt their abilities, leading to micromanagement and decreased team morale. I became the bottleneck of decision-making, stifling creativity and innovation. The team's morale suffered as their contributions were undervalued and overshadowed. Talented individuals began to feel unappreciated, leading to a decline in motivation and productivity.
During a critical project, I couldn't bring myself to entrust an essential task to a capable team member. My doubts consumed me, and I took on the responsibility myself. However, this led to burnout and affected my work-life balance, making me realize that my mistrust was harming not only my team but also my own well-being.
I remember feeling conflicted; I knew that my actions were not aligned with my values of trust and transparency.
Top 3 ways I Switched from Mistrust to Trust
1. Embracing Authenticity and Trust:
To break free from the shackles of mistrust, I practiced what I preached. I began by engaging in introspection, understanding my fears, and acknowledging the impact of my mistrust on the team's dynamics. Embracing vulnerability, I opened up about my struggles with trust, creating a culture of openness within the team.
2. Leading with Empowerment:
Wanting to lead authentically empowered me to embrace trust fully. I recognized the capabilities and expertise of my team members and started delegating responsibilities accordingly. By letting go of control, I gave them the freedom to excel in their roles and make decisions, developing a sense of ownership and accountability.
3. Nurturing Trust through Communication:
Communication became a powerful tool in rebuilding trust. I encouraged open dialogue, actively listening to my team members, and valuing their ideas and feedback. Transparency in decision-making processes further solidified trust, making the team feel valued and respected.
When I decided to show up authentically and vulnerable with my team, trust began to bloom and a shift occurred within the team. I remain grateful to have witnessed first-hand the transformative power of trust. The team became more engaged, taking ownership of their work, and collaborating seamlessly. Mistakes were viewed as learning opportunities. The team's innovative ideas and problem-solving skills flourished, resulting in improved productivity and higher-quality outcomes.
My struggles to trust taught me the immense power that trust wields in unlocking a team's full potential. By letting go of control, we created an amazing work environment. Trust became the foundation upon which we built a cohesive and high-performing team.
As a result of this experience, it became the foundation of the work I do with my clients in their development in becoming powerful leaders, and I am humbled by the achievements they have accomplished as a result.
Trust is not just an abstract concept; it is the heart of effective leadership that enables both leaders and their teams to thrive and grow.
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I’m Nadine Seaga and I’m a Mindset & Leadership Coach, Founder & Chief Energy Officer (CEO) of People Development Consultants. I can help you to harness your full potential and the full potential of those you lead! Schedule your Clarity Call Here